Tag: self-reliance

In Ba Xue Yuan, the little girl was always a loner, reading alone, eating alone, walking alone, playing games alone. "I just like to play by myself," she said. "I think it's good to play alone. Everyone has their own choice and I have the right." I believe that there are many parents, when their children like to be alone so much, social poor, must be extremely anxious, and even wonder if there is...

I still remember once seeing a parent, in order to make the child become outgoing, the child must take the initiative to say hello to 25 strangers every day, and will not be allowed to go home until he finishes. They even took their children to public places with large crowds every day and pushed them into the crowd with a firm hand. As a result, the child becomes more and more fearful and even...

I deeply believe that if parents cannot accept their children and treat their children's personality and temperament as social barriers, denying the children every day and thinking about changing the children every day, then how can the children accept themselves from the bottom of their hearts and achieve themselves? As Haruki Murakami once said: "Not all fish live in the same sea." They are not...

One kid in particular stood out on tsinghua University's freshman list last year. Lu zeyu, 15, was tsinghua's youngest freshman last year, joining Wu And Ke as classmates. At a young age, how did you do that?It starts with his family education. Lu zeyu comes from a very ordinary family. His parents began to teach their children to read at an early age, and he had already learned 3,000 Chinese...

In the CCTV program "Thank you, My Home", a guest left a deep impression on everyone. His name is CAI Xiaowan, an ordinary father, known as the "talent magician."There are five sons and one daughter, each of whom has made outstanding achievements in his career. Eldest son, PhD, Cornell University;Professor of statistics at the Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania; The second son, 14,...

In fact, it is not just the girl's mother who thinks so, as if the whole society will be introverted and worthless, weak, inferiority marked on the equal. Extroverted and lively children, can easily be praised and affirmed, they know how to win the favor of relatives and friends, elders, in the face of the same conditions, they are more likely to get more resources and opportunities.   In...