A man should have his bottom line and principles

When Li Linfu saw the letter

In the face of the emperor's appreciation of the people, he either flatters, or honeyed. Li linfu courted the emperor's favorite concubines, consorting with eunuchs and concubines to learn about the emperor's whereabouts and preferences.   Because every time he started writing, he got the emperor's heart, so he was appreciated.   After that, he was very afraid of being replaced, and if...
A man should have his bottom line and principles

Never throw three bottom lines or you’ll ruin your life

What is the bottom line? The bottom line is the minimum character, is also born a necessary condition.   Bottom line, invisible, but rooted in the heart;Touch not, but the impact of a lifetime.   People living in the world, must adhere to the following three bottom lines, if lost one, will be destroyed life.   No matter how difficult a man is, he cannot default on his debts  ...
A man should have his bottom line and principles

No temptation is too great to abandon

Be human, be sympathetic. However hard life may be, we must not seek our own happiness from the misery of others. No temptation is too great to abandon one's conscience Temptation is everywhere in life. Desire can also plunge a man into an abyss by pushing him forward. As the proverb lianbi says: "The fish catches the bait and the moth catches the fire.   Drunken li, full of blood, have...
Being able to speak is an art

Zhuangzi” said: “the son is not a fish

"Zhuangzi" said: "the son is not a fish, know the joy of fish. This means don't try to make assumptions about people without knowing them well, let alone making judgmental comments about them. There is a public service advertisement in Thailand. A very fierce woman went to the vegetable market to collect rent. As soon as she entered the market, she shouted at a peddler to pay the rent in time....
Being able to speak is an art

The measure of speech is the size of man

The writer Hemingway has a famous saying about speaking: "It takes two years to learn to speak, but it takes a lifetime to learn to shut up." Speaking is an art.Can speak, is a skill;Knowing when to be silent is the most difficult practice in one's life. A man is measured, in fact, when getting along with others, speak and act in a measured way. Not to ask questions, not to talk nonsense, not to...