A few days ago, Professor Liu Yu of Tsinghua University gave a speech.
Referring to the phenomenon of children taking piano lessons, she said:
“There are probably more than three million children in Beijing learning to play the piano, and we have four or five downstairs. If you want to stand out from the rest, you are setting yourself up for failure. Let your children learn ancient Greek and Roman history.”
Seeing the other mother trying to teach herself, she said:
“Our child asked her to open a milk tea shop in the future. As a result, the mother in the group also asked her child to open a milk tea shop in the future. The competition in the milk tea shop is so fierce, so our child opened a pancake shop.”
Tsinghua professor said: his daughter, is also overwhelming to become a normal person.
True education is never the Midas touch or the skills of becoming a Buddha. It is more of a process in which spring breeze and rain melt and moisten things silently.
Put aside the short-term utilitarian, in order to harvest more long-term results.
Some people say that the biggest anxiety in education is that others are in the “chicken baby”, I can not even blood……Not necessarily.
Friend’s son, learning talent is not high, love to play, the college entrance examination more than 400 points, not to the undergraduate score line.Friends want to send their children to a famous secondary school outside the province, to spend hundreds of thousands of donations to the school to enter.
“Can he not go to a good school, where the environment forces him to do so and everyone else does?”
“I said:” he must go to the bottom, can not keep up, the mentality may collapse, as a more suitable for the school.
The friend listened to the advice, changed to send the child to the city’s good high school, the second year’s grades also improved a lot.
It takes more wisdom to find what suits you than to follow the crowd.
The scrabble under the scroll can bring some sense of security, but this sense of security may not be really safe.
You go to the most crowded place, it must be a stampede competition.This can be a trap for inner rolls.
Put the vision long to the child’s life, than focus on a point of achievement is more important.
Parents should not be on/off switches, transmitting stress directly to their children;
The parent should be the container, holding the child, holding the child.