One day, Zeng Guofan wanted to move his desk to the window so that he could read and study.But did not expect the roommate unhappy said: “you have blocked the window light, I still how to read!”
Zeng Guofan was not angry either, and said, “Where do you think my desk should be?”The roommate pointed to the dark side of the room.
Zeng Guofan helpless, the desk moved in the past.
As the exam drew near, Zeng Guofan stayed up late reciting the book every day. However, he was scolded by his roommates: “I don’t study hard on weekdays, but I cram at night, so that I can have a rest.”
Zeng Guofan was still not angry, nor did he argue, but continued to recite quietly.
It wasn’t until later that zeng came out top in the exam, but his roommate failed. Perhaps out of jealousy, the roommate growled at Zeng, “I should have the good feng shui in the room, but I don’t want you to take it away from me!”
Zeng Guofan, who heard this, smiled calmly.
Life in this world, it is inevitable to encounter rotten people rotten things, anger, sulk…You can’t get away with it.Instead of being angry, it is better to face it calmly, with a wider heart, a better attitude and a smaller temper.
A wise man will take his time when things happen;A stupid man will only get angry when things happen.
As the saying goes: tolerance is big.
A man should have an open-minded heart and be able to tolerate the difficult things in life.
Life, open is pure, yield is wisdom, not angry is the real calm.
Be kind to yourself and never get angry at first
There is a scene in A Dream of Red Mansions:
One day, one of Baoyu’s first maids, Qingwen, was depressed by the anger of others.To find Baoyu Daiyu was therefore blocked at the door qingwen.
At first Daiyu thought that the people in the house did not recognize who she was knocking at the door again. At this time, Qingwen, who was in a depressed mood, responded irritingly: “My husband said, no one is allowed to come in!”
It happened that the laughter of Baoyu and Baochai came out of the room, which made Daiyu even more sad and angry. She thought to herself: Is it really Baoyu who doesn’t want to see me?
So Daiyu went back to her room, thinking and feeling sad. She did not sleep all night.
And It is precisely because of her sentimental character Lin Daiyu, a thin life.
The ancients said: “there is nothing in the world, trouble for nothing.”
Anger is actually the fault of others to hurt yourself.
And a person’s life is not used to worry and angry, happy every day is the only purpose.
Pepsi from the heart, a smile to solve a thousand worries.
Be kind to others, in fact, is to be kind to yourself;The first step to being kind to yourself is to never get angry.
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