Mr. Tsutsumi kept his grandfather’s words in mind and required employees to think like his grandfather, which led to the spectacular success of holiday hotels across Japan.
One of the most difficult things to do with others is to feel for others.
We always habitually think from our own point of view, just like the young Tsui-Ming, trying to give the beggar unwanted kindness and ignoring his dignity.
If you don’t see things from the other person’s point of view, you just can’t get to the point and you’re liable to be misunderstood.
To truly understand perspectivism is a lifelong practice.
To trust is to rest assured
What is trust?
Trust is the basis of a relationship involving a transaction or exchange. In short, trusting a person comes at a price.
Trust is like a gamble. If you win, the relationship between two people will become stronger.
If you lose the bet, you will lose a relationship. Not only that, the one who chooses to trust will suffer other losses besides feelings.
People to the middle age, read countless people, has gone through countless deception, see through the world.
If you know that the rivers and lakes sinister, still believe that human nature is good, it is rare.
If you see through the essence of deception, still choose to trust others, is valuable.
Liu Xiu, emperor Guangwu of the Eastern Han Dynasty, was a man who had his own judgment and did not lose his trust in others.
Someone once wrote to Liu Xiu that Feng Yi had a great prestige after fighting in Guanzhong, and the people called him “King of Guanzhong”. They feared there would be harm if he continued like this.
But Liu Xiu trusted Feng Yi unconditionally, because he knew very well that without Feng Yi these right-hand men, he could not establish the Regime of the Eastern Han Dynasty.
Therefore, Liu Xiu showed feng Yi the memorial, and told him the true idea of his heart, let him concentrate on the war.
Liu Xiuzeng said:
“General to the country, righteousness for the emperor and minister, the father and son.What suspicion, what fear?”
As the saying goes, “people do not doubt, doubt people do not use”, trust is a choice, but also a positive attitude.
There is a saying that goes like this:
“Trust is the key to the heart, sincerity is the bridge to it.”
To be trusted is duty and happiness;To trust others is to trust and rest assured.
“The value of life should be seen in what he contributes, not what he achieves.”
Giving is always more meaningful than getting.
Pay to deserve to have, give face, to win respect;To understand, in order to receive good;To trust, to harvest happiness.
In middle age, “give” is the highest way to live the rest of your life.