“This is an important woman in my life,” Lee told a 2006 concert.
That night, Zhang asked jokingly, “Did you ever love me?”
She did not wait for the answer, but in the dark night, in the cold wind, only heard the half-century-old Lee Zongsheng hoarsely throat: “Have been sad tears, have been heartbroken, this is the price of love.”
No answer is the best answer,
No ending is the best ending.
All of our regrets, missing out, and goodbyes can be summed up in one word: inappropriate.
No one knows this better than Zhang.
Finally, with unpowdered makeup, and with the beauty and ease of years, she said softly:
Come on, come on, you have to learn to grow up.
Go on, go on, life is full of pain and struggle.
If Pansy Ho was the woman I admired most when I was young,
My sister is my middle-aged envy of love,
The picture of Ai Jia is how I expect to grow old.
When Zhang was in her 60s, she looked into the eyes of a representative of the post-90s generation for a full minute on Open Talk.
The girl across the street was staring at her with tears streaming down her face.
Zhang Laughed: “Are you crying for my wrinkles?”
The girl in her early 20s said, “I see years in your eyes.”
Time is the most moving word for a woman.
In “Understatement,” Zhang Ai Jia writes:
“Life is heavy, but to a certain age finally understand, can be understated.
Some of the answers to these questions, when we were young, we rushed to the head bleeding do not understand, and then as we grow older, also grow older, we know that the answer is right in front of us.
Birth does not determine your life, love is not necessarily from one to the end, divorce can not drive you to the bottom.
Faith is the best cosmetic for a woman.
The best medicine is three meals a day, the best doctor is sleep on time, the best cure is study and travel, the best love is self-love, the best life is discipline.
A woman can only make a new identity for the whole world, including herself, when she is rich enough inside.
No longer afraid of wrinkles at the corners of the eyes, also do not care about things change, can really learn to get along with themselves, and suffering reconciliation.
In fact, these truths, if can understand earlier, could have not suffered so much.
Fortunately, it’s not too late.As Sanmao said:
I have no time to seriously young, and so I understand, can only choose to seriously old.
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