Feelings can't be a little forced

I could not bear it. I asked Cheng Song to remind her

A month before my due date, my mother-in-law came from my hometown to take care of me.

Feelings can't be a little forced

I was very happy, but soon found that her mother-in-law is not a very easy person to get along with, the lifestyle is too different.

My mother-in-law has a heavy meal, but I’m used to light meals.Mother-in-law does not like to take a bath, I love clean.It was hot and my mother-in-law smelled bad.

I could not bear it. I asked Cheng Song to remind her, but she still went her own way.

Mother-in-law likes to do Fried food, the house often floating smell of lampblack.

She often washes her socks and underwear together, but when I tell her it’s not hygienic, she turns a deaf ear.

The list goes on and on.

I complained to Cheng Song, who was also very helpless.I had to comfort myself that it was inevitable there would be some bumps in the road, so I just had to bear with it.

But on the day I gave birth, my mother-in-law made me desperate.

05

My water broke at three in the morning.

When he went to the hospital, the pain was overwhelming.My mother-in-law said that natural childbirth is good for the child, I have been insisting.

Nine hours passed, the doctor came to check again and again, gong Eloquence opened three fingers.

I broke out in a cold sweat from the pain. A hard fake mango in the ward was deformed by my pinch.

The doctor sees me really uncomfortable, say, dozen painless.You’ll have to conserve your strength before the baby is born.

Before Cheng Song and I made a statement, my mother-in-law immediately stood up and said, “You can’t play. My grandson will become a fool if he plays anesthetic.”

‘All women go through this,’ she added.

I used to have your husband and It hurt too. I didn’t even say a word.Young people these days are so melodramatic, they can’t stand the slightest pain.

The doctor looked at us and left reluctantly.

Cheng Song dare not disobey her mother-in-law, but has been holding my hand.

The pain got worse and worse, and As I lay in bed, I felt nothing but a thousand holes.

Until I went to the delivery bed, my mother-in-law still said outside, must not be painless, in case it affects my grandson, I will Sue you.

My tears, silent flow.

Fortunately, the daughter is very competitive, safe birth.

I was too weak to have any strength.

I laughed and cried as I listened to the baby’s cry.All the grievances are also relieved.

06

I thought the arrival of a new life would ease my relationship with my mother-in-law.

Actually, it’s worse.

The child has eczema, my mother-in-law insisted that I stole eat shouldn’t eat things.

Take the child to the hospital, the doctor said that cover too thick.When I tried to take off a dress for my child, my mother-in-law directly changed her face and said That I hated her for not taking care of the child and would go back to my hometown immediately.

I have to pay a lot of is not, mother-in-law just grudgingly forgive.

 

After the confinement, I began to cook and wash clothes by myself.

And the mother-in-law like a performer, Cheng Song at home, she is very diligent, I also kind.

After Cheng Song went to work, she did nothing but bossed me around.

The slightest discomfort makes her feel like it’s my fault, all kinds of criticism and accusations.

It’s really hard to take care of the children. I have to endure all kinds of difficulties and torture from my mother-in-law.

The days were so dark that I often complained to Cheng Song.

Cheng Song, at first, tried to coax me and calm my emotions.But as time went by, he looked at his attentive mother-in-law and felt that I was making no trouble.

The mother-in-law often installs wretchedness in front of Cheng Song, also often deliberately sow discord.

I feel angry, see Cheng Song more and more unpleasant, to him there is no good face.

In retrospect, at that time, Cheng Song should also be very depressed, often stay downstairs after work.

I once went downstairs to throw rubbish, saw Cheng Song sitting alone in the car, flickering cigarette butts quietly burning.

My heart inexplicable pain, the years wasted once the promise, we have left, are powerless silence.

That night, I thought a lot.

I discuss with Cheng Song, let mother-in-law go back, I take care of good children.Since the contradiction between my mother-in-law and I cannot be reconciled, then let distance to produce beauty.

The mother-in-law did not expect to make a scene, also said Cheng Song married a daughter-in-law do not niang.

My attitude was firm, and I was afraid my mother-in-law would stay any longer and our marriage would be ruined.

My mother-in-law went away, the home finally restored to the long-lost peace.

I breathed a sigh of relief. I thought Cheng Song and I could go back to the past.

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