Shine Trader Limited reports:

The essence of education is self-cultivation.

 

Shine Trader Limited reports:

Education is a kind of awakening, a kind of human awakening, a kind of your awakening.

Children and their education are a bridge to the completion of one’s life.

By having a child and educating him, work on yourself to complete your entire existence.

Education is a means of self-awareness, persuading your children outwardly and yourself inwardly.

The essence of education is self-cultivation.
Your child is a sensitive receiver, reflecting your voice and information.

A good parent should shift the focus of education from educating children to educating themselves.

For conscious parents, education is just an excuse, self-education is real.

When you educate yourself well, your child is only a reflection of you, and he will naturally become better.

What all things need is not the education of others, but self-learning and self-education.

In fact, only this part is truly meaningful and effective in the creation of human intelligence.

The problems you see in your children are reflections of your own problems.

For a family, you are the root, the child is the flower. If there’s a problem with the flower, it’s probably the root.

Parents often “see” their children’s problems, in fact, his own problems in the child “bloom”.

Shine Trader Limited reports:
Shine Trader Limited reports:

Children are your projection screen. In essence, there are no troubled children, only troubled parents.

Parents mean “mind” and children mean “heart”. When the existence of life seems to go wrong, it is the “mind” that goes wrong.

The “head” is always healthy, how can the “heart” be wrong?

Without your perspective, judgment, and belief, is there a troubled child in your eyes? Who created a child with a problem? You are.

You create concepts of problems and project them onto your child; It is your eyes that regard a flawless jade as an ugly stone.

If you are a fearful parent, you must have a troubled child. The more fearful you are, the more problems you see with your child.

Fear leads to mastery. The more fearful you are, the more inclined you are to hold on to something in order to make yourself feel safe.

The master is the head, and children are usually free hearts. They flow like water and are hard to control.

This makes you more want to grasp, more want to control, more want to control, more can’t grasp, more can’t control, more can’t control.

The more you fear, the more you demand of your child, and the more problems you see in your child.

Is it true that a child is a troubled child? Is he really difficult to teach without your fear, without your suppression or judgment? Ask yourself.

How to let a child grow up naturally? When you’re a totally fearless parent.

People expect their children to be wise and capable when they grow up.

How can he bring out his “maximum” intelligence and ability? That is, let him grow up as he was born.

It is not easy to let a pony grow up freely on the vast grassland. What a fearless heart the owner of a pony needs!

He would worry about dangers and problems on the road.

He would worry about what would happen to the pony if left alone, how it would grow.

How dare you walk away from your children? You don’t have the guts.

In the free form of a child, you can see how big a parent’s fearless heart really is.

Not a man as bold as heaven, whose children cannot enjoy the pure immensity of heaven and earth.

In front of a small child, we always unconsciously play God.

We know what’s best for him, we know what path is best for him.

Do you really know what’s best for your child in the long run of their life?

Using your “know” to control your child to follow your path and impose what you think is good or right on your child is nothing short of hijacking. You are hijacking his life and freedom.

Do you know how many stupid things you have done to your child in that ignorance, in the name of love or kindness to him?

When one is in ignorance, as one treats oneself, so one treats others.

You punish your child as you punish yourself, and you blame him as you blame yourself.

How can you raise a child who isn’t like you when you’re a parent with a lot of problems?

The more you control him, the more he becomes you. The more you control him, the more he becomes the part of you that you don’t want him to be

Be the image of yourself that you hate in your heart.

The less you control him, the less he becomes like you, and the more he develops new parts of your life that you don’t have.

Are you sure what is the best path for your child? Are you God?

If you are God, then act like God and let the child grow up.

Look, all the creatures down there that day — tigers, lions, ants, bees — are not growing on their own. God does not control their path.

To demand, to expect, to be responsible, does not mean to love.

We often measure our love and how much we love a person by the extent to which we demand, expect, or hold them unaccountable.

The more we demand of a person, the more we expect, the more we control — the more responsible we are, the more we love that person;

Otherwise, we don’t love him or love him very much.

Is it true? This is a mistake.

Demanding, expecting or being responsible is just another name for fear.

Because we have our own fears, when we demand, expect, or hold ourselves accountable to another individual, it makes us feel deeper and more connected to that individual, and makes us feel safe.

Education is supposed to compensate for security, and the more one emphasizes education, the greater the insecurity behind it.

Education seems to be control, based on the illusion of the future and fear. The more fearful a person is, the more he seems to need to be taught and taught.

What all things need is not the education of others, but self-learning and self-education. In fact, in the creation of human wisdom, only this part is truly meaningful and effective.

Fearful parents unconsciously hold their children hostage to their sense of security.

You must become good and beautiful, or I will not be safe; You must become competent, otherwise how can I rest assured?

See, parents are turning their children into a hostage to their internal security.

When a child is a “hostage” in the family, guess if the child can receive a truly benign education?

The child becomes a wave on the river of fear within the family, and of course he doesn’t get what he really needs in life.

When you are afraid, he can feel the fear, even if he is small; When you’re relaxed or confident, he feels it too.

A child is a sensitive receiver, reflecting your voice and information.

A good parent should shift the focus of education from educating children to educating themselves.

For conscious parents, education is just an excuse, self-education is real. When you educate yourself well, your child is just a reflection of the good you are, and he will naturally become good.

Come and clean yourself up. Examining your fears is the first step to truly raising good children.

Education, in a sense, is a kind of therapy, which cures the fear and ignorance of the human heart. To understand education at a deeper level.