Family is the cradle of children’s growth, is the first place they receive education after birth.
Parents are also the first teachers of their children. What parents can bring to their children often determines what their children will become.
Let’s say we spend 20 minutes a day after school asking our kids these five questions.
Can give the child natural and solid growth, more can cultivate the child benefit lifetime personality quality.
“Have you had a good day at school?”
According to statistics, about 30 million Chinese children and adolescents under the age of 17 suffer from various emotional disorders and behavioral problems, and the trend is increasing year by year.
Many people do not understand that childhood should be the happiest time for children, but why emotional related diseases frequently find their children?
Sometimes, we control our children’s study and pace of life too tightly, and do not allow them to express their true emotions, which forces children to close their hearts to their parents step by step.
After school, put yourself in the child’s position, the first to the child to ask “today, you go to school open not happy ah.”
Guide the child to talk about their own state in the school, can not only enjoy the joy, but also help the child to share the burden.
Children are not emotionless learning tools, allowing them to laugh and cry can temper tantrums can vent, is the parents give children the most warm education.
Listen carefully to what your child is saying.
The child shows the inner need hidden under the behavior, please see it in time.
Although things don’t kill you, negative emotions can lead an immature child to tragedy.
We want our children to understand that no matter what happens and how they feel, their parents will gently accept them and guide them.
Work with him to defeat negative emotions, fix problems, and take control of your emotions and direction.
“How are you getting along with your classmates?”
Children’s world, the school is also a small rivers and lakes.
Professor Li Meijin once said:
“Observing the behavior of a child’s best friend is the best way to learn about the child.”
In the TV series “The Hidden Corner,” A teacher named Chaoyang Zhu tells his mother that his child is too introverted to communicate with others at school.
But mama retorted:
“Students focus on learning, and making friends is what they do when they enter society.”
In her eyes, her son is a high-scoring machine whose only task is to do well in the exam.
A mother who ignores the reality of her child’s friendships does not even know that her son is isolated in school.
In the end, the child goes to another circle full of crime and blood. He is broken and his family is destroyed.
Parents do not teach, children do not understand, a lack of social skills in the child, in public will be full of stress and loneliness.
At the same time, children are more likely to be attracted to “poisonous friendships” in order to win the approval of their peers and get trapped in unhealthy clique.
Put knowledge to ask, the child and classmates get along with how, pay close attention to the child’s friend situation, reduce the child bullied dare not speak of the situation, but also protect the child not to go astray.
“Were any questions asked to-day?”
Wisdom comes from asking questions. Curiosity changes lives.
Growing up children, there are always a lot of strange problems.They like to ask questions because they are curious about the unknown world.
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